Notice again how Tony Stark is incredibly relaxed talking to women and how he doesn’t make a big deal when things don’t go as planned. He doesn’t hesitate to ask for names, where they’re from, what they’re up to later, and he doesn’t do it in an ass-kissing way either. He gets through it quickly and doesn’t put women on a pedestal. He’s basically communicating, “My time is short and if you want to impress me or have a chance with me, you better play along with me.”