Crazy and Psycho Women Can Ruin Your Life
If you’ve dated any number of women, you’ve probably met a few crazy and a psycho ones – women who seemed to have lost their mind or “marbles”, had a “screw loose”, been a little “off” or mentally “unstable”, were a little “loopy”, or were just straight up crazy. Women like this can be incredibly difficult to deal with and make life a living hell.
It Happens to the Best of Us
If you haven’t dealt with any crazy and psycho women in your life, you probably YOU WON’T SEE IT COMING and you won’t know how to handle it.
A lot of crazy women seem perfectly normal when you first meet them.
Psycho women are elusive and know how to put on an act to slide under the radar. In fact, many crazy women of seem too good to be true. That’s the scary part. But that little voice always pops up in the back of your mind that says, “I don’t know. Be careful. She seems way too perfect. Something might be a little off here…” So when that amazing woman turns out to be a psychopath, there’s no reason to beat yourself up about it or feel like an idiot.
What Classifies Women As Crazy and Psycho?
I’ve been lucky enough to have a few “psycho” and “crazy” women just snap and punch me, pull a knife on me, almost get me shot, threaten to kill themselves, throw very hard and sharp objects at my head, tell me they were pregnant when they weren’t, contact my friends to slander me, and one woman, a 2nd Degree Black Belt, threw a round house kick AT MY HEAD.
It’s a numbers game – date enough women and your chances of meeting crazy and psycho women go up.
She might be crazy or psycho if she:
These are a few to get you started. Here are some more.
Do Psycho Women Know They’re Crazy?
Psycho and crazy women are usually blinded by their behavior. They think they’re perfectly normal and EVERYONE ELSE has something wrong with them!
Telling a crazy or psycho woman she’s crazy like telling a fish it’s wet.
Crazy women live on a different planet and their mind is in a totally different place.
So, how do you handle the crazy and psycho behavior when it pops up? What do you do?
1. Try Not to Tell Her She’s Crazy
One way to make a psycho woman go “psycho 2.0” is to tell her she’s crazy. She will lose her freakin’ mind, even more, and it’ll open up an even bigger can of worms. If she’s a little tornado, she’ll turn into a full-on hurricane!
I made this mistake. It wasn’t pretty and didn’t end well.
2. Be Cool, Stay Calm, and Don’t Freak Out
A good way to make a tense situation worse is to be the second person in the room flipping out.
The crazier she gets, the calmer you get. Usually, if she sees her craziness isn’t getting results, she’ll stop.
A lot of women go crazy because it’s a mechanism they’ve used to get their way with men for many years. They’re used to it working ALL OF THE TIME! That is, until she meets YOU. When she sees acting crazy doesn’t work to get her way with you, she’s likely to knock it off.
3. Don’t Give In
When she’s going psycho, a lot of guys “give in” to get the craziness to stop, thus encouraging the behavior. She’s used to getting what she wants – and again, she got it.
Giving in is a bad idea because now she knows SHE OWNS YOU. She knows she can turn on the “crazy switch” anytime and you’ll give her what she wants.
End this vicious cycle. DON’T GIVE IN! Stay strong and when she knows she won’t win the battle, she’ll calm down.
In the circus, when elephants are babies, their trainers put a big rope, bigger than necessary, around their foot. The little elephant kicks, squirms, and fights but can’t break it. Eventually, the elephant is brainwashed into thinking no matter how hard it tries to break the rope, it won’t. When the elephant gets bigger and becomes an adult, it doesn’t try to break the rope and get away. The elephant “believes” it won’t win that battle.
The same is true when you don’t give into her craziness. You’re the big rope and eventually, she’ll know she can’t break it so she won’t even try.
4. Don’t Be Submissive
If a crazy dog is about to attack and you’re cornered, being dominant and getting in attack mode is the best thing to do to get the dog to back off. Turning your back or becoming submissive will make it attack because it thinks you’re scared prey.
The same applies to dealing with crazy, psycho, and threatening women. When they’re in kill mode you need to be dominant and stand up to her. Otherwise, she’ll attack and bite you!
Jocko Willink, former Navy Seal and black belt in Jiu Jitsu, says when someone is getting aggressive, you’re more likely to get hurt if you submit than if you stand up to them. Most people looking to pick a fight aren’t expecting someone to be like, “You wanna fight? Cool. I love fighting. Let’s do this.” That mindset freaks them out and gets them to stop.
Vince Vaughn Submitting to Crazy Woman In Wedding Crashers
5. Show Her You’re Not Afraid
Crazy women know if you’re afraid, you’ll do what they want. She knows she owns you when her crazy woman eye twitching freaks you out.
If you start trembling when her eyes roll into the back of her head and she starts foaming at the mouth, she’ll take advantage of the situation.
6. Put Your Foot Down – Be Direct and Brutally Honest
Since crazy women make you miserable, you have to be able to tell her to get out and stay out of your life. It takes a lot of balls to be direct and say, “I’m not going to tolerate you behaving this way. Enough is enough.”
A lot of men NEVER say anything because they’re afraid of how she’ll react or respond! They’re afraid she might butcher and boil their cat or dog while they’re at work or they’re in damage-control mode because they figure people are too afraid to stand up to her and she’ll go berserk and destroy the place.
It’s crucial to stand up to her and let her know her behavior and attitude won’t be tolerated.
Tell her where you stand – that you need her to chill out or things aren’t going to work between you and her. If she’s being stubborn and doesn’t get the point, STAND YOUR GROUND and don’t budge. This works well with crazy women because they disappear pretty fast when they realize they aren’t going to get their way.
7. Get Away From Her ASAP
When you’ve had enough and you know it won’t get better, get rid of her. If you can’t get rid of her, GET AWAY FROM HER!
How to get away from crazy women:
Join the witness protection program, change your name, grow a gnarly Tom Selleck mustache, move to the snowy mountains, and become a beer delivery man. Never contact your family or friends again.
Cut her out of your life. If you have to change your number, do it. No matter what you have to do to get away from her, it’ll be worth it.
8. Don’t Contact Her Anymore
It doesn’t matter how awesome she is in bed and how horny you are, never reopen that door!
If you want the craziness to stay gone, don’t invite it back into your life.
Disappear and STAY GONE.
No adding her on social media to see how she’s doing.
The more time you spend with the Linda Blairs of the world, as David Deangelo puts it, the more miserable your life will be.
The best thing to do is GET RID of the psycho women AS FAST AS POSSIBLE!
But, while you’re having to deal with them, STAY CALM and KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS IN CHECK. If they see they can “trigger” you, they’ll keep doing crazy things to get a reaction.
If you’re in a situation where you have to see her on a regular basis, distance yourself and limit your communication with her.
Crazy or Psycho Women “Fade Out” of Your Life
Most crazy women don’t willingly disappear from your life. They’ll be like a mental patient kicking, screaming, and scratching the walls as doctors and nurses drag them to a padded cell. They’ll call and text like crazy and if you change your number, they go out of their way to get the new one. They call your friends, family, etc, just to get you “hear them out” or they play the victim so people will listen. They find ways to see you and they might even show up at your job.
Just stand your ground. You’ll notice she’ll fade out of your life and some other poor dude will become her next victim.
Eventually, she’ll forget your number, about you, where you live, where you work, and you the nightmare will be over – and it’ll be starting for another guy.
What If I Keep Attracting Crazy Women?
This means you have work to do on yourself.
In the eBook and Audiobook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women, you’ll learn that you attract the type of women into your life who have similar thinking and behavior traits as you. That you attract your mirror image and you are “the woman on your arm”.
If you keep attracting psycho women, you need to take a look at your own mental health or “inner issues”.
David Deangelo of Double Your Dating has great programs on fixing your “Inner Game”. Also, there are a lot of “mental health” articles, books, and programs on the internet that help you identify your issues and straighten them out.
Once your “inner issues” are handled, the quality of women you date will go up.
Thanks for reading,
– Marc Summers