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How to Make Threesomes Work for You

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Threesomes can be hot, especially if you’re lucky enough to get two girls together to join you, but you need to do a little preparation and take some precautions to make sure that you all have a great time. We’ve all heard the horror stories of threesomes gone wrong, so you want to avoid that at all costs. There’s no guarantee, but there are some ways you can prepare so that the experience is as enjoyable as possible for everyone involved, so read on to find out more.

Pick The Right People

Choose people who are single, as you don’t want to cause any complicated issues later on. Ask them politely and make it clear that there’s no obligations and that nothing’s going to change if they say no. Once you have one person agreed, work with them to find the perfect third member of your threesome and respect their opinion. Respect and collaboration will make the experience better for everyone and create a friendly atmosphere.

Find Out What Everyone Wants And Set Boundaries

make threesomes work - set boundaries

Once you know who’s coming to the threesome, make sure that you find out what they’re looking to get from the experience. When you know what you all want and need you can set boundaries together so that no one feels uncomfortable and everyone has an enjoyable time during the threesome.

Set Up The Perfect Space

Create a welcoming and relaxing space with a few luxurious touches. One way to easily spruce up your drab bedroom is to buy some decedent silk sheets to make your threesome comfortable. These will give your boudoir a very sensual feeling and be comfortable for during the threesome. Other considerations should be things like lighting, candles and décor so that your space is as safe, relaxing and engaging as possible for everyone involved.

Think About What Will Happen Before And After

make threesomes work - think about what will happen

As part of your preparations make sure you think about what you will all be doing before the threesome and afterwards. It’ll make things awkward if you don’t have a proper plan, so try to think about what you will be doing. You might consider going for a few drinks first so you can all bond and get to know one another better, or you might like to sit and have a chat. Whatever you decide, make the choice as a group so you all know what’s going on and are happy with the entire arrangement.

Incorporate Toys

To spice up your threesome try bringing in sex toys, provided this is accepted by all three participants. Introducing sex toys will allow you all to have a great time and makes it easier for everyone to get involved regardless of their anatomy. There’s also a wide range of strap on dildos out there so you can free up your hands for other activities.

Consider Using Food

make threesomes work - use food

Again, you need to make sure that everyone is comfortable, but if they are then consider using food to make your threesome even more thrilling. Some foods are recommended for improving your libido and stamina, whilst others are just fun to bring into the bedroom. Whatever you choose, think about how you will use it and how quickly and easily it can be cleared away afterwards.

Set The Mood

make threesomes work - set the mood

When preparing for your threesome make sure that you choose the perfect mood music to really bring everyone together. There are specific playlists available so that you can set the mood and get everyone ready and feeling relaxed. Sex is a sensual experience, and this involves all the senses, including sound, so think carefully about what tracks you’re going to play. Keep the volume down low so that it doesn’t disturb or distract anyone during the threesome.

Seek Feedback

After you’ve finished the threesome, check that everyone had a good time and got what they wanted out of the experience. It can feel awkward to talk to people after a threesome, but by communicating with them and learning what they enjoyed and what they didn’t you can improve your game, and this knowledge could potentially help you if you do decide to reconnect with one or both of the other participants in the future.

Don’t Be A Stranger

make threesomes work - don't be a stranger

Try not to let the experience of having a threesome together make things awkward for you and the other people involved. Continue to communicate with them afterwards and keep your friendship alive by going for drinks and including them in other group experiences with your mutual friends.

Conclusion

Remember to consider everyone involved and make sure that they feel comfortable throughout your shared threesome experience. It’s easy to just think of your own pleasure, but by communicating and supporting the other two people involved you’ll be able to get more about the experience yourself and make sure that everyone has a good time.

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