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5 REAL Things that Impress Women (and 4 Things that Don’t!)

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Women Aren’t Impressed By What You “Think” Impresses Them

We’ve all thought, “There has to be something I can say, do, or reveal that will impress her! Being myself will not do the job…”

We all want to stand out and be different to impress women, but proving how special we are isn’t the most effective strategy. We brag about our home, car, job, and money and how we’re different and better than other men. Although it may impress her briefly, it doesn’t lead to a lasting impression or lasting attraction – both of which are important.

Women Aren’t Impressed By What You Think

When you try too hard to impress women, it won’t work. Impressing women with signs of wealth or being “cool” doesn’t spark attraction. When she’s feeling attraction, she doesn’t care as much as you think about the external. You can be broke, in debt, have raggedy clothes, and still living with your mom. If she’s feeling a lot of attraction, it won’t be that big of a deal to her.

Money Doesn’t Impress Women

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Gold digging women chase the money, not the man. When you brag about money, it becomes impossible to tell which women are using you for money and which ones aren’t. It makes you confused, depressed, distrusting, and you wonder why you can’t meet women who want you for YOU and not your money.

What many of us don’t understand about music videos is the musicians and music labels HIRE models to be in the videos to create the illusion of women being impressed and attracted to guys with money. Yes, I said, HIRED! A lot of the time, these women are strippers, escorts, and not the high-quality women you want long-term.

Thinking money impresses women ruins your chances with them. Thinking being broke scares women away is the wrong mindset. Women run away from rich men and into the arms of broke guys every single day. They just aren’t impressed by money as much as you would think.

It’s perfectly fine to be rich and financially well-off but don’t use your money to impress women. Instead, be a gentlemen and ask questions. Be interested and curious about them (although it’s important not to get overly nosy). Just by decided to have a good conversation, you can show women you’re interested in them on a serious level.

What You Drive Doesn’t Impress Women

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Women like expensive cars and trucks, and they might even ask for a ride in it, but it doesn’t create a lasting and uncontrollable attraction. A expensive cars and trucks only impress and attract shallow women who use you for a status bump, selfies on Facebook, or to make themselves feel better.

Where You Live Doesn’t Impress Women

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Women may think your home, condo, or apartment is beautiful and dreamy, but it only impresses them temporarily.

When she sees your house is more beautiful than your personality and the way you carry yourself, she won’t stick around. She wants to be impressed by YOU, not your possessions you’re using to overcompensate for what you’re lacking.

What Really Impresses Women

Women are more impressed by things MUCH DEEPER than things like money, cars, houses, etc. because external things don’t spark attraction. External things only catch her attention. What sparks attractions and makes her want you can’t be bought, made, or delivered.

Here are 5 things that always impress women regardless of how much money you have, what you own, where you live, etc.

1. Not Seeking Approval and Caring What Women Think

It sounds like the opposite of what you should be doing, but it’s not. If you want to impress women, you have tostop caring what they think. Most guys care too much about what women think and women are tired of going out with guys who are overly concerned with their opinion of them.

When you STOP TRYING TO BE UNIQUE and stop worrying if she’s impressed or not, you naturally look better than other guys and she sees you as different. A good different.

2. Carrying Yourself Well

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All women are impressed by a gentleman. A man who is respectful, confident, and in control of himself.

Even if you don’t speak, her conduct tells her A LOT. The ability to carry yourself well is a surefire way to stand out from the other guys and leave a lasting impression on her.

Carrying yourself well and being a gentleman has nothing to do with being overly nice, putting her on a pedestal, or being in the friend zone. Half of the eBook and Audiobook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women, is dedicated to teaching you how to carry yourself well.

Money and nice things don’t keep her impressed or make up for a lack of self-respect, self-control, and confidence.

3. Not Bragging

bragging to impress women

Women get tired of men bragging about. If you were her in her shoes, how would you feel after 5 or 10 different dates full of bragging and approval seeking? Would you look at men differently? You would be very turned off by it.

This is most women’s reality. Guys brag about their life, accomplishments, who they know, and so on just to impress them.

If you want to impress women, be humble about yourself, your life, and your accomplishments.

4. Being a Challenge

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Being a challenge impresses women because most men are make themselves way too easy.

Instead of being mysterious, most men talk too much about themselves to women they don’t even know. Instead of being a challenge, most men throw themselves at women and ruin the fun of the “chase”.

Easy-to-get doesn’t impress women or spark attraction. In the eBook and Audiobook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women you’ll learn that if she has to spend time figuring you out, she’ll be more excited around you, more interested in getting to know you, and feel more attraction.

If she knows everything about you too soon, the “excitement” of getting to know you is gone. There’s nothing for her to wonder about and it’s much easier for her to become VERY bored.

5. Natural Confidence

Confidence, without being too cocky or arrogant, impresses all women.

The movies, where the popular and hot girl tries to help out the nerdy and insecure guy and she winds up falling in love with him are not accurate. It doesn’t happen in real life.

If you don’t carry yourself in a confident manner, women are less likely to be impressed, feel attraction, and think you’re a great guy.

Thanks for reading,

-Marc Summers


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Hi, I'm Marc

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I sucked at attracting women. I made all of the mistakes, tried everything from TV, and did what I actually thought attracted women. The women I DID date were always below my standards and I usually got cheated on or dumped before I even knew what was happening. Despite being the nice, generous, and loving guy I thought women wanted, they simply didn’t feel attraction for me and I was miserable.

The last straw was when my girlfriend left me for her ex that just got out jail. It took her 15 minutes from the time she received the call to pack her bags and leave. I was so lame that I even helped her carry her bags to the taxi! That was when I knew I had to make big changes if I wanted to avoid ever feeling like that again. That was the day I decided to figure out and learn what actually attracts women and makes them want to be in your life.

Since then, I’ve written multiple best-selling books on attracting women and have helped countless men get instant results with women using what I teach. No matter how screwed up and hopeless your situation seems right now, I guarantee you I can help you make it better.

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