10 Weak Mindsets and Behaviors that Make Women Think You’re Immature
Maturity is Everything if You Want to Attract Higher-Quality Women who Stick Around
Not only does maturity make it a lot easier to attract more and above average women, but it also makes them WANT to stick by your side through thick and thin. If you’re mentally weak and immature yet, somehow, lucky enough to land a high-quality woman, I promise you there’s a good chance she’s only hanging on by a thread. She always has one foot out the door and is constantly questioning her relationship with you until you push her over the edge and she’s gone without hesitation. When you have a more evolved, well-rounded, and more mature mindset, you see the world through a more mature lens, and you have a more mature outlook on life and situations you’ll find yourself in with her, she’ll do whatever she has to do to weather the storm and make the relationship work. That’s how big of a difference strength and maturity makes! She knows, without a doubt, that weak and immature men are becoming more and more common and stronger and more mature men are becoming harder to find.
A stronger and more mature mindset removes the questions from her mind. It removes the insecurities and the doubt. She’s more relaxed and more comfortable being in a relationship with you and more likely to feel she’s in the right place and making the right life decisions.
If you have the same mindset you had 5 and even, 10 years ago, you’re only screwing yourself over and it’s easy to guess that your life is full of problems and women don’t stick around.
The ones who do stick around probably don’t make you very happy and you don’t make them as happy. I wrote this article to help you change it. To help you grow up a little. To help you outgrow the friends, family, and associates that are poisoning your mind with their immature and mediocre bs that’s holding you back. Yes, I said “poisoning” your mind because that’s what hanging around weak and immature people does. Their thinking and beliefs permeate your brain and before you know it, you’re thinking, behaving, and saying the same things they do. You have to get away from all of that if you want your dating life and other areas of your life to get better.
Look at the guys around you and on social media who complain, “Women don’t notice me and they only like douchbags and bad boys wah wah wah!” That’s not true at all. I know tons of guys who aren’t jerks, assholes, douchbags or body builders and they have no problems with women because their mindset is different and they STAND OUT. They aren’t weak, fragile, and immature and thinking and behaving like they’re still in high school. Weaker and immature men don’t stand out, don’t catch women’s attention, and aren’t getting the same results with women.
It’s Impossible to Remain Mentally and Emotionally Weak and Immature and Get the Life, Friendships, and Relationships You Actually Want
The world’s most successful men are not only getting better results with women but they’re getting the much better results in their personal and professional lives. Pay attention to men like Jeff Bazos, Carlos Slim, the late Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Larry Ellison, Grant Cardone, Michael Jordan, Lebron James, Tom Brady, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, Dan Bilzerian, and so many more. Read up on them. Watch interviews on YouTube. Listen to how they speak, the words they use, and the look on their face. Watch their temperament. Look at their eyes when they talk to people. They ALL have an edge. They’re dominant. They’re in charge. They take more action than everyone else around them and they do whatever is necessary to create the life they want. They’re not taking shit from anyone and they’re definitely not getting bullied or pushed around. They’re not complaining about what isn’t fair and not wasting time caring what other people think. The success didn’t make them who they are. Who they are made them successful! The strength and maturity came FIRST and everything else that the world envies them for followed.
It’s impossible to remain a mentally and emotionally weak and immature guy and still keep high-quality women around.
If you want an above average life with high-quality women who actually want to be in it, you simply cannot skip the work. You can’t skip what it takes to become the type of man and develop the personality traits that women naturally want. You can’t just jump straight to the success part. You have to invest your own personal time and energy for a few months and, maybe, even a few years, like I did, and just hammer away at everything holding you back in your life and with women. Hammer away at your weaknesses and insecurities. Hammer away at the part of your mind that is still childish and believes the world is unfair. Hammer away at the immaturity that’s causing women to run away. Spend time pulling out all of that bad, ineffective, and useless programming, trash it, and replace it with wise and effective thoughts and beliefs that make you mentally and emotionally stronger.
Physically Being a Man Doesn’t Mean You’re Mentally and Emotionally Grown Up
All of the physical signs of being a mature man doesn’t, by far, make you a mentally strong and mature man. Puberty only affects the body, not the brain. If you want your mind and emotions to grow up, that’s a process you have to put YOURSELF through. It’s not automatic and not something your mom, grandma, dad, or, even, the military can do. They can educate you and show you the ropes but, ultimately, it’s up to you to decide when you’re ready to grow up and knock off all of the dumb and immature shit.
Unfortunately, for most of us, it usually takes REAL problematic situations to wake us up and force us to grow up. I don’t mean minor problematic situations like having to Uber because your dad took the car away or using the laptop to get on social media because your phone broke or you didn’t pay the phone bill. I mean REAL PROBLEMATIC SITUATIONS like losing your job, being dead broke, and on the verge of being homeless (or you are homeless). That painful situation WAKES YOU UP and FORCES you to evaluate which thoughts and decisions put you there and how your mindset has to change in order for you to avoid ever being there again.
The more weak, immature, and naive you are, the more terrible shit you’re going to experience as a result. The more terrible shit you experience, the more you figure out how to grow up and become more mature in hopes of avoiding those situations again. But, you only become more mature if you’re smart enough to learn from your mistakes. If you’re a stubborn and hardheaded know-it-all and don’t force yourself to grow up and become more mature as quickly as possible, life will keep shitting on you until you get the point.
So, to help you avoid getting shitted on, even more, by life than you already have, here are 10 things that you can work on. Not only do these 10 things make your life much easier, but they also help you attract more women and keep them around longer.
1. Not Accepting Responsibility for Your Life and Your Problems
Refusing responsibility for your own problems, situations, and life not only makes keeping women around extremely difficult but it also leads to a lot of arguments and dysfunction in any relationship you’ll find yourself in. You can’t have the mindset that everything going wrong in your life is always someone else’s fault or it’s because of a certain circumstance. You gotta stop being too weak and scared to look inwards and find out where you’re being sloppy, lazy, and complacent and how all of that negligence has led to where you’re currently at. Accept the blame and admit when you’re not on top of your shit and doing the things you’re supposed to be doing.
This mindset is the first thing that has to go when you’re trying to become more mature and attract higher-quality women. When things happen, which they ALWAYS WILL because it’s a part of life, you can’t start looking to blame other people or things. Be strong enough to accept responsibility and deal with whatever happens because of it.
Here are a few things that need to quit happening IMMEDIATELY if you want women to quit thinking you’re immature:
The maturity that attracts women is taking responsibility for EVERYTHING in your life and not making it anyone else’s problem. Accept responsibility for where you’re at RIGHT NOW, stop complaining about it, and take consistent action to make it better.
YOUR LIFE IS YOUR FAULT and you have just as many opportunities as everyone else around you to get your act together and become a better person.
Come on. Let’s put away the emotions, knock of the complaining and blaming, and start being responsible for the results you’re getting in your life. That’s the only way you’re going to attract and date the women you really want.
The mature man that women want to be with accepts total responsibility for his mindset, decisions, and behavior and NEVER makes it someone else’s problem.
2. Mismanaging Conflict, Friction, Stress, and Problems
Bitching, whining, and complaining about everything that doesn’t seem fair or isn’t going your way isn’t what women are looking for. They’re not deeply attracted to the guy smacking his lips, throwing his hands in the air, and complaining about how something isn’t the way it “should” be. Look, life never has been and never will be fair and perfect. Sometimes people who don’t deserve to win are going to win and people who “should” win will get the shitty end of the stick. It’s just the way life goes. Complaining and whining about it is a complete waste of time because it doesn’t change it.
The guy that women actually want to be with is rolls with whatever happens and never makes it a bigger deal than it has to be.
Everything doesn’t need to be perfect in your life for you to feel good and be in a good mood. If you allow every little imperfection in your life to put you in a negative mindset and mood then you’re just going to keep meeting women who think you’re a weak, whiny, and wimpy man. Find a way to work with what you have going on and if you’re not happy with your situation, as I always say, TAKE ACTION TO CHANGE IT. There’s positive in every situation and instead of focusing on what’s wrong in your life, focus on what’s right. Instead of focusing on the darkness, focus on the little bit of light you do see. 99.9% of the time, it can always be worse and your life isn’t as bad as it could be.
Adjust your mindset! Not only is it more mature and less annoying, but it’s more effective and eliminates a lot of unnecessary stress from your mind and life.
All the stress and negativity from not handling your situations and circumstances correctly POISONS AND DAMAGES YOUR RELATIONSHIP with her. It minimizes your chances of success. Negativity is toxic and, if you’re smart, you’ll keep your problems and frustrations to yourself. Jocko Willink, retired SEAL Team Three Task Unit Bruiser Commander, says, “Oftentimes, expressing your emotions to the world doesn’t improve your situation or position AT ALL! Most of the time, expressing your emotions to the world sets you back.”
Stop allowing yourself to be victimized by people, situations, and circumstances and instead of thinking and saying, “This thing happened TO ME”, change it to “This thing happened” and just leave it at that. Take yourself and your ego completely out of the equation. Everything doesn’t always have to be about you and how it makes you feel. Being a man is having the maturity to take yourself OUT of the equation and just see it for what it is instead of feeling like the situation is against YOU.
Instead of being mature about it, this guy is freaking out because his dad asked him to get a job and lay off the video games:
This guy’s mom cancels his World of Warcraft account and he handles this problem by getting really weird, making dinosaur noises, and going completely insane:
Instead of remaining calm and accepting responsibility for whatever happened, this cries like a baby ON CAMERA because his girlfriend left him:
Only immature men are weak and self-centered enough to respond to situations in this manner. If ANY woman EVER sees you behaving this way, regardless of how long you and her have been in a relationship, she will immediately begin to question what she’s doing with you. Freaking out, complaining, and feeling like a victim NEVER changes the situation and it only clouds your judgement and prevents you from thinking clearly. Mature men who attract women easily completely understand this and always find the most effective way to deal with any situation they find themselves in.
3. Too Concerned with Impressing Others
Let’s just start with what I REALLY think about impressing women and other people – YOU SHOULD NOT BE CONCERNED AT ALL WITH IMPRESSING OTHERS because it makes you look totally weak and pathetic. You should only be concerned with impressing yourself because YOU STILL HAVE A LOT TO PROVE TO YOURSELF! If you spend your time working to impress yourself by seeing how much you can accomplish while you still have the time, what you can build, what you can improve, how many people’s lives you can improve, etc., at the end of it, you’ll realize that you don’t care about impressing other people and you’ll actually be pretty disappointed that most of society isn’t keeping up with you.
I’ll be honest, I spent the first twenty years of my life overly concerned with impressing people I didn’t know and who didn’t give two shits about me and my life didn’t changed for the better until I STOPPED DOING IT! I’m shaking my head right now thinking about it because I cared way too much about what everyone thought and I didn’t realize how completely obvious it was to everyone. I drove around in the shiny car with the windows down and rap music blasting thinking that people would say, “Wow, look at how cool that guy is!”. I went to the gym, got shredded, wore the wife beaters, and posted the selfies so people would see how muscular I thought I was. I walked around with my chest out and head cocked back so people would think I was a tough guy. I unnecessarily pulled out rolls of cash in front of people at the store, mostly 20’s and 1’s, so they’d get envious and think I’m rich. I made unnecessarily loud comments in public with my friends so people would hear and think I was a high status guy. I spent more money than necessary at the bar buying women and all of their friends drinks so they’d think I was some type of big baller. It was pathetic! I had this over-inflated sense of who I thought I was and that limited mindset of wanting to impress people HELD ME BACK FOR YEARS! I’m trying to help you avoid it.
But to help you avoid it, I have to be brutally honest with you and tell you to STOP GIVING A SHIT ABOUT PEOPLE THINKING YOU’RE BETTER THAN OTHERS. You may think you’re making a certain impression, but from the outside looking in, I promise you, you’re not. To those who are paying attention, looks completely lame, needy, and ridiculous. It doesn’t get you anywhere with women and it actually repulses them! If your showing off does happen to attract women, you’re only attracting low-quality women with the same low-quality mindset. They’re no good for you and only take value from your life instead of adding it. Again, I’ve been there and done that I know this more than I should.
When you have the mindset of, “I want to impress” whether it be “him”, “her” or “them”, you’re approaching the situation with the completely ineffective scarcity mindset and it doesn’t attract women. You’re basically telling them, “I have low self-esteem and I want you, someone who’s not responsible for how I feel, to make me feel good about myself by being impressed.” Do you hear how stupid that sounds? Seriously think about it, what are you getting out of impressing people? A small ego boost? How is that small ego boost making you a better person or improving your life? It’s not! That tiny ego boost you get from people being impressed does NOTHING to improve you or your situation so you’re, basically, just completely wasting your time.
On the other side of the coin, when you approach all people and situations with the abundance mindset, you get better results. Something else I learned the hard way is that PEOPLE LIKE YOU A LOT BETTER when you aren’t trying to impress them. This is something I am now 100% sure of. If you haven’t seen this for yourself, try it. Spend a whole week just being “whatever” and not worrying about impressing anyone with your words, money, or what you own. In fact, try to avoid impressing them and just see how much better people respond to you and how much more genuine they are with you.
4. Poor Reputation and Image
To be clear, there is a big difference between the desire to impress women and others and the desire to keep a solid reputation for yourself that you’re proud of. They’re two different things and it’s important to know how they differ.
Although the image you hold in your mind of yourself IS important and it’s just as easy to screw up, the image of yourself I’m talking about here is equally, if not more, important. Smart and mature men understand that image and reputation is an important life tool that they cannot afford to get wrong. Look at the athletes, musicians, movie stars, politicians, and CEO’s that forgot image and reputation is important and look where they are now – broke, forgotten, in jail, and can’t catch a break. Their reputation is FOREVER ruined and most of them will never bounce back from it. That’s why people like Tom Brady, Ellen, Will Smith, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, Keanu Reeves, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Tom Hanks, Adam Sandler, Oprah, Meryl Streep, Ed Sheeran, Lebron James, George Clooney, Michael Jordan, Ryan Gosling, David Beckham, Jay Leno, etc. A BIG PART of their wildly successful lives and having the life, friends, and family they want is taking their valuable reputation and image seriously. They don’t care what people say about them BUT they ABSOLUTELY care about the impact their reputation has on their life, career, and opportunities. Find a picture or a video of any of these people with two middle fingers in the air and saying things like “I don’t give a fuck. Fuck everybody!” and engaging in other trashy and sloppy behaviors that those who are “too cool” to watch their reputation engage in. The secret is they know when to avoid talking and answering questions or hanging out with people that can damage their reputation. They don’t risk the wrong people getting the wrong idea about them. They think, “What possible repercussions can this thing I’m about to say or do have on my life, well-being, and opportunities.” They don’t risk it and they’re better off for it.
If you want women to desperately want to be with you, start paying this much attention to your reputation and image. You should only be concerned with a reputation and image that’s positive, adds value to your life, gets you to where you want to go, and connects you with the people that you actually need in your life. When you’re connected to the right people for the right reasons and you have all the opportunities in the world, WOMEN WILL FLOCK TO BE WITH YOU! They’re not gold diggers, they know a smart man when they see one! Being the guy who has 50 pairs of Jordan’s, drives the souped up car with the Instagram sticker, or the being past quarterback of your high school football team is completely useless and unimportant. Big freakin’ deal, dude. It doesn’t add value to your life or give you a valuable reputation. The guy who wants to give you 6 figures to run his business doesn’t care about your wannabe sports car or your useless social media page. It’s worthless to him. He wants to know about your character, accomplishments, and your reputation. Oh, you didn’t spend time working on your character, accomplishments, and reputation over the last 10 years because you were focused on your Call Of Duty video game score? Sucks for you. You lost out on a life-changing opportunity, dude. Life isn’t unfair, you’re just focused on the wrong things. You have your priorities screwed up.
I’m an Aircraft Mechanic and I’m currently restoring aircraft from the 1950’s and when they hired me for the job, the boss walked around with my resume and asked all of the mechanics, “Who knows this guy and what can you tell me about him?” He heard only good things and I was in. No interview required. If he hears anything bad, like the guy shows up late, he complains, he steals, does sloppy work and covers it up, etc., the guy doesn’t get hired and he loses out on an opportunity because he doesn’t care about his reputation. Simple as that.
REPUTATION EQUALS MONEY, FRIENDS, WOMEN, CONNECTIONS, AND OPPORTUNITIES and you’re a moron if you think you can have a poor reputation AND the life you actually want.
Your poor reputation follows you around and if you don’t start fixing it NOW, you’ll eventually run out of money, women, choices, and opportunity. There’s still time to become more mature, knock of the dumb shit, and turn it around. If you simply don’t care about the impression you’re making on everyone around you, then it will continually mess with every part of your life and you will always have serious, yet avoidable, “problems”. Pay attention to how your actions affect your reputation. “I don’t give a fuck” IS NOT an excuse to act ignorant and foolish.
If you have “haters” and people avoid you, it’s very likely because you’re acting like a moron and you’re an embarrassment. When you know something can come back to haunt you, be smart about it. When you do something good, 10 people hear about it. When you do something stupid, 100 people hear about it. Not good for business or your life.
5. Seeking Validation and Approval
You can be as manly as you want and fight bears, wear flannel, grow a beard, chop wood, drink whiskey for breakfast, and act tough BUT if you don’t have the “kiss ass” feature inside turned “off”, then women won’t respect you or feel attraction for you. You can’t act like the epitome of masculinity but still turn into the most pathetic, approval-seeking man the second a pretty girl appears. That just makes you a fake dude that women avoid and make fun of.
Maturity is GIVING YOURSELF VALIDATION AND APPROVAL. Why do you need it from some woman you don’t know? Why do you need it from people who don’t give a shit who you are or what you’re about? Women don’t sleep with you because they approve of you. They sleep of you because they’re attracted to you. Apples and oranges. How many women have you met that approve of you but they won’t let you get ANYWHERE near their panties? How many women have you met that seem like they don’t approve of you, and yet, they want to sleep with you over and over?
Approval IS NOT attraction. Get that silly idea out of your head and knock off the childish, “please like me” attitude. It’s weak, lame, and pathetic.
Who do you think women want to sleep with more? The guy who asks, “So, what do you think about me? Am I what you’re looking for?” or the guy who nonchalantly says, “I don’t care if you approve of me or not. I’m just looking to hang out, relax, and have fun.” The first guy is pressuring her, putting her on the spot, making things super weird, and trying to get something from her. The second guy is like, “Whatever, dude. I don’t care. I’m confident and comfortable in my own skin and I’m not trying to take anything from you.” Who do you think she feels more comfortable around? The guy who isn’t pressuring her in any kind of way.
I’m dead serious, lose the “Do you approve of me?” mindset. Stop making yourself look so weak and pathetic. Here’s the truth about what happens when you’re in approval seeking mode and wanting her to like you – you take her to an expensive dinner and spend more money than you wanted to, then to the movies, or some other poor choice for a date, and then when you walk her to her car to see if you can kiss her good night, but you come up empty. She politely hugs you, tells you she had a “good time”, and drives off. The date is completely dead and OVER and all you got was a hug in return for all of the money you spent. Here’s where it gets worse – she’s not she’s not going home, she’s texting her “jerk” ex-boyfriend to see what he’s “doing”. You know why? She’s tipsy off of alcohol you bought and wants to get her turkey stuffed. Some OTHER GUY is getting laid on your dime! Believe it or not, she was even “open” to the idea of sleeping WITH YOU if you made her feel enough attraction, but you didn’t (Don’t listen to the “women don’t sleep around” and “no first date sex” garbage. Not true.) How do I know? I’m the ex-boyfriend sitting at home and I get a text at midnight that says, “Hey!!! Wyd. You mind if I come by???” Then when she comes by, she tells me about the boring date, all the things they guy said or did wrong, and then I bang her. That doesn’t make ME the bad guy. It makes YOU the guy who needs to quit approval seeking!
6. Wannabe Tough Guy
The wannabe tough guy thing makes women and ACTUAL TOUGH GUYS laugh because they can see how fake and ridiculous it looks. They automatically think you’re a mentally weak and immature guy hiding behind his crippling fear of being uncomfortable, getting hurt, or looking weak. Nobody respects or looks up to that.
When you’re an ACTUAL TOUGH GUY, like Jon “Bones” Jones, and you don’t need to worry about someone messing with you or doing something stupid, you’re mature about it and you keep your ego in check. The need to prove how tough you are doesn’t exist. It’s just “whatever”. It is what it is and you’re not spending your time and energy focusing on it. Here’s one of Jon Jones’ interviews – see for yourself. When you’re an ACTUAL TOUGH GUY, you’re comfortable being uncomfortable – meaning you’re comfortable being in uncomfortable situations. Rolling around on the ground with someone, having punches and kicks thrown at your face, or someone trying to choke you is not as big of a deal for you as it would be for the average guy. You’re relaxed and able to let your guard down because you’re 100% sure of your ability to handle anything that goes sideways and if you’re not 100% sure, you’re 100% sure you won’t be frozen in fear. You don’t have the need to puff your chest out and hold your elbows out looking like a paranoid chicken. You don’t feel the need to stare people down and intimidate them or wear t-shirts describing how tough you are, how many guns you own, and why people shouldn’t mess with your daughter. The “I’m tough and I want you to notice” mindset just doesn’t exist when you’re an actual tough and dangerous man. All the bullshit just goes away and you’re not egotistical about what you’re capable of. If you don’t get it, read this paragraph over and over until you do.
Focusing on shaping other people’s perception of you, like wanting to look tough, is a form of approval seeking. It’s a waste of time and creating a false image of being tough, dangerous, and edgy does NOTHING for you except attract trouble and weird women out. Normal women don’t want to date you if you’re always focused on intimidating people and proving you’re somehow better than them. They want you to cut the crap and chill out.
The wanna be tough guy thing also includes going to the gym and lifting more weight than you can handle. You’re not getting anything out of it. Women aren’t watching you and thinking about how hard they want to ride you. They’re only thinking you look dumb. If you have to twist your body to bring the weight up when curling a dumbbell, you’re embarrassing yourself. If you have to lift your ass up off the bench and yell when hammering out reps on chest and you don’t have a spotter, you’re embarrassing yourself. It’s too much. Stop struggling, grunting, and bringing negative attention to yourself.
Look how ridiculous some of these people look trying to prove how “strong” they are and how dangerous it actually is:
When you’re a mature and mentally tough guy who attracts high-quality women, you don’t need to intimidate people to boost your ego, prove you’re an “alpha” male, or prove how tough and strong you are. Only immature waste their time on that nonsense. If you’re actually scared of being uncomfortable, getting beat up, or looking weak, do the mature thing and handle it the right way. Put yourself in that situation, get comfortable with it, and learn what it’s all about. Join boxing, Jiu-Jitsu, or some other self-defense class and get experience. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. The more experience you actually get and the better you get at it, the more the wannabe tough guy act naturally goes away on its own.
7. Lacking Respect For Yourself and Others
Immature men lack respect for themselves, women, and others. They say and do things that are abusive and they try to control women out of insecurity.
Real men are secure and confident and don’t try to bully and control women and others.
8. Low Standards
Real men’s high standards are the reason they treat themselves and others with respect.
Mature men have clear standards on:
Immature men have much lower standards.
Define your standards. Set the bar high. Those who want to be part of your life will make the effort to meet your standards. Be clear on what IS and isn’t acceptable and live your life by it.
9. Poor Social Skills
Immature men lack social discipline. They brag, show off, and lack class. Unaware of how they look and sound in social interactions, they lack manners, interrupt, and don’t focus on listening. Instead, they focus on what to say next instead of understanding what they’re being told. They talk more than necessary, use more words than necessary, and respond without thinking.
No matter how great their life is, mature men avoid bragging and anything and any other bad social habits that make them seem like a douche bag. When others speak, they listen and give them an opportunity to feel understood. When responding, they pause, think about their response, and then carefully assemble their words. They understand verbal, body, and written language and make an effort to become better at interacting with others.
10. Poor Self-Discipline and Self-Control
Immature men avoid work and are only motivated to do what’s fun. They don’t discipline themselves to get the results they want.
They don’t tell themselves “no” or make themselves do things that are tough and boring, yet beneficial – like working out, going to bed on time, getting up early, saving money, eating healthy, and getting their act together.
When enough is enough, they don’t know how or when to stop gambling, drinking, partying, slacking off, eating, playing video games, watching tv, etc.
Real men are about self-discipline and self-control. They know how to say “no” do what’s necessary for a better life. They aren’t victimized by a lack of self-control.
Mature men control of their life and everything in it.
Bonus: Real Men Chase and Get What They Want
Immature men dream, wish, and hope their life will improve. They imagine doing they really want, BUT THEY NEVER TAKE ACTION! They say, “That sure would be nice” but fail to take steps in the right direction.
Real men don’t have the time to dream, wish, and hope because they’re too busy making it happen! Every. Single. Day!
Real men get what they want whether it’s a job, career, car, house, woman, etc. If they want it bad enough and it’s worth getting, they do whatever it takes to make it happen. They figure out what needs to happen, create a plan, execute, and get what they want. They stop at nothing to get the life they want and deserve.
If you spend your time watching TV, playing video games, and doing other low-value activities, it’s time for it to stop. Figure out what you want, make a plan, execute the plan, and turn your life around.
Too many old men, WHO WERE JUST LIKE YOU, say, “I wish I would have” instead of being able to say “I’m glad I did what I had to do to make it happen.”
Real men don’t screw around. They handle their business, have their life in order, know what they do and don’t want, and live their lives by rules, principles, and standards. They don’t waste time playing dumb games with themselves and other people.
Mature men get things done and move their life in the direction they want it to go. Start doing the same.
Thanks for reading,
– Marc Summers