Your Happiness, Peace of Mind, and Sanity Comes First
Many men put up with a lot of unnecessary games, nonsense, and drama from women.
- Stay in toxic relationships and situations they hope will get better
- Keep women around they think they can “change”, fix, and improve
- Use women’s looks and companionship to justify keeping them around
In the long run, it’s never worth keeping problematic women around.
Aim for Quality, Not Quantity
Dating several low-quality/average women at once rather than just dating one high-quality at a time will eventually become a major headache and nuisance. You push high-quality women away and end up with low-quality women who make your life harder than it has to be. You pay the ultimate price for choosing quantity over quality.
Dating one amazing and high-quality woman who has her act together mentally, emotionally, and physically, beats dating 5 women who, combined, don’t compare. The quality of the women you choose to date definitely makes a difference in how happy, relaxed, stress free, and peaceful you feel.
Low-quality women leave you worse off than before and high-quality women help you become a better man.
“No Matter How Hot She Is, Some Guy Is Sick of Her Shit”
More and more men are struggling to meet the “right” woman or the type of woman they want around long-term.
Just because she’s hot, popular, cool, and has hot friends doesn’t mean she’s high-quality. Looks don’t mean anything if her mind is all screwed up or she’s crazy.
We’re all flawed, but low-quality women drain you of energy and motivation and make you a lot less happier and fulfilled than high-quality women.
It’s wise to take your time, get to know women well, and avoid jumping into relationships too soon because you think you’re “in love”.
Being single, patient, and pickier beats having a hot and irritating girlfriend who makes you miserable.
Quality Women Take the Time and Make the Effort to Improve
- Have enough common sense and self-awareness to notice the effects their thinking, behavior, habits, and decisions have on others
- Are mature enough to know there’s always room for improvement. If they improve their mind, behavior, and decisions, they’ll attract higher-quality men
- Consciously practice being balanced, honest, and fair
- Don’t lower their standards or manipulate to get what they want
- Are mentally and emotionally responsible for the results they’re getting
- Have priorities and goals and invest the necessary time and energy into getting what they want
- Are considerate of others and stay out of their way
It’s All in Her Behavior
Low-quality women lack the self-awareness of high-quality women. “Quality” is all about her behavior – from the small and, almost imperceptible, behaviors and habits to the very obvious ones. The women you want to avoid get so much attention from men for their “looks” that they have no incentive to improve their mind, habits, and behavior. If a man runs away, another will show up to replace him.
Just because she’s hot, gives you attention, and sleeps with you doesn’t mean you have to tolerate her bad habits or behavior.
Life is too short to settle for low-quality women. Your happiness and peace of mind are more important than being the guy with the “hot girl”.
- Support you, make you a better man, and help, in any way necessary, to get you to where you want to be in life
- Understand and respect your wishes, where you’re at, where you’re going, and what you’re trying to accomplish
- Know when to be there for you and when to give you time and space
- Don’t hinder you from becoming a better person or the man you ultimately want to be
Avoid women who are selfish, inconsiderate, manipulating, reckless, irresponsible, and are trying to improve.
So, from experience, here are 19 types of women you want to avoid dating because they will leave you unhappy, unsatisfied, and unfulfilled.
As a man, if you notice you have some, or a lot, of these traits, start working on improving yourself so women don’t view YOU as a low-quality man.
1. Facebook and Social Media Addict
If someone struggles with acceptance, the need for approval, or caring what others think, Facebook makes the problem MUCH worse. When they see how easy and fast it is to get attention and approval, they become overly addicted and spend unnecessary amounts of time in pursuit of “likes”, “comments”, and approval. Their time is spent indulging in narcissism and doing whatever it takes to get the approval they aren’t giving to themselves.
Women addicted to social media use shares, pictures, and posts to get attention and paint a fake picture of who they are.
Without likes, comments, and re-shares, they feel low self-esteem and self-worth.
THIS IS A BIG PROBLEM if you’re dating her! This trash mindset negatively impacts your relationship. Getting the approval of social media “friends” and followers seems more important than spending time with you and connecting with you.
2. The Selfie Addict
Selfies are a sign she’s extremely narcissistic.
Selfie addicts don’t have a lot happening in their life, they’re not serious about goals, and they’re far from having their act together. Those who actually have their act together and are making things happen are last ones to care about selfies and posting everything they’re doing on Facebook and social media.
If her social media full of selfies and attention seeking behavior, avoid dating her. Her social media directly reflects what’s happening in her mind.
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3. The Hypochondriac
Hypochondriacs always have something wrong with them. They’re always hurting, have a headache, sick, or popping pills.
Yes, some women really are suffering from serious disorders or illnesses. But others are only seeking pity because they’re used to seeking attention or being lazy and pampered. They make a spectacle of their situation by posting updates of their condition on Facebook – “Hey everyone. Went to the hospital today. 159-degree fever. Vomiting like Linda Blair in the Exorcist. Lost my glasses and got attacked by a possum because I thought it was my cat. Doctor might have to chop my foot off. I have a cold. My Scabies are back. I’m sneezing blood. :(” And they accompany the post with a selfie of them looking sick or in a hospital gown.
If you’re pretty sure there’s nothing wrong with her but she’s always laying down, popping pills, and complaining about aches, don’t waste your time dating her.
Just to be clear, if she develops an illness after you’ve been dating her, by all means, do everything possible to be a good person and take care of her. BUT, if she’s using it just to seek pity or attention, move on.
4. The Phone Addict
Relationships are extremely difficult with women who are absent-minded and constantly distracted by their phone.
If she can’t put her phone down and focus on her time with you, then she’ll struggle to focus in other areas of the relationship as well.
Constantly being on her phone makes you want to go Hillary Clinton, destroy it with a hammer, and then burn anything that’s left. Not being able to put her phone down communicates she’s very immature and you’re just not that important to her.
5. Abusive, Rude, and Disrespectful
Disrespectful and rude women are, not only, embarrassing to have around, but they ruin your reputation for being a man of self-respect.
When you respect yourself, you only date women who respect THEMSELVES. If you don’t tolerate second-rate behavior from yourself, don’t tolerate it from anyone else.
6. The Co-Dependent Clinger
Listen to those red flags when you’ve only known her for 72 hours and she’s already at your house every single day. Most women love their personal space and something is very wrong when she barely knows you and she won’t give you space. Something is wrong when she’s extremely clingy because she doesn’t want to be single or alone.
If she gets attached fast, she’ll run away and forget about you even faster.
Ask for your personal time and space and make her take time away from you. If she refuses, run like you almost got bit by a mosquito at Charlie Sheen’s house.
7. Insecure and Jealous
- “You like her?”
- “You like her too?”
- “Did you bang her? Why are looking that way?”
- “I was gone for 5 minutes. Who did you have over here?”
- “Who’s calling you?”
- “Why is your phone locked?”
- “Why did you take 2 whole minutes to text me back? Texting other girls?”
- “Oh you’ve known her since you were 5? Did you tell that bitch you have a girlfriend?”
- “Why doesn’t your Facebook say you’re in a relationship? What are you hiding?!”
Never date women who think they own you.
You will hear it all. Nothing gets under your skin faster than dating insecure and jealous women.
A little jealousy once in a while is understandable because she cares for you and has probably been with you for a while. Just a little… But if it’s non-stop and she’s always making jealous remarks about everything you do, move on and avoid women like her in the future.
8. The Woman Hater
Maintaining a normal social life is difficult dating a woman who hates other women.
When she constantly calls other women “bitches” and says mean things about other women to make herself feel superior, stop dating her. You’ll never have good relationships with any of your friends, their families, or their spouses because your insecure woman-hating girlfriend will constantly make you feel bad for it.
If she doesn’t have a really good reason for hating other women, she needs to go.
When she hates other women, she has extreme insecurities you don’t want to deal with long-term.
She won’t “change” or improve her attitude because you want her to. Even if she doesn’t verbalize how much she hates other women, it’s easily noticeable by “resting bitch face”.
You’re social life will benefit from avoiding negative, woman-hating women.
9. The Liar and Fake Girl
Some women are incapable of telling the truth and even when there’s no reason to lie, the liar and fake girl lies. She lies about everything – who she’s dated, who she knows, where she lives, how much she goes out, how much she drinks, who she is, the things she likes, etc.
The lying doesn’t serve a purpose because if was just honest, she’d actually be in a better position.
A lot of women lie because it’s all they’ve ever done and they think you’re just “another guy” dumb enough to fall for anything she says.
If she lies when she meets you, there’s no telling how much she’ll lie and how “sneaky” she’ll be in a relationship.
Date women who are transparent, tell the truth, and have no reason to hide anything.
10. The Gossiper
One minute she’s your best friend, taking selfies with you, complimenting you, tagging you on Facebook, and the next she’s gossiping about you to get approval.
Avoid women who gossip at all costs. If you do ANYTHING she doesn’t like, she’ll be on the phone, texting someone about it, posting about it, or telling someone what you did and how you’re such a jerk..
You need a high-quality woman who is for you, not against you.
You need a woman that, no matter how bad things get, stays loyal and doesn’t talk behind your back.
Kick gossipers to the curb and find a woman who’s a REAL FRIEND and not two-faced.
16. Irresponsible, Immature, No Priorities
Some women think life is a big joke and don’t take the consequences of not having their act together seriously. They create problems for themselves and their parents, family, or friends and just latch onto one guy after another so they don’t have to be responsible.
You can’t teach an immature woman to become more responsible, mature, and to get her priorities in order if she really doesn’t want to. She can’t be forced to get her to get her act together, pay attention to detail, think before she acts, and plan for the future. You can’t force her to set goals and work towards them.
If you are responsible, mature, and have your priorities lined up, you will clash with her.
Immature and irresponsible women:
- Get in the way and stop you from doing what you’re trying to do with your life
- Abuse and waste your precious time that YOU NEED to focus and work towards your goals
- Keep you from instilling good habits
- Turn your life into chaos
Your responsibilities, maturity, happiness, peace of mind, and life goals COME FIRST and if she has no respect for what you want, you should avoid her. She can ruin her life if she wants, but she’s not ruining yours as well.
17. The Spoiled Brat
Above: A grown woman throwing a temper tantrum for not getting her way.
Some women were never held accountable or disciplined for horrible behavior when they were children. As a result, they grow into adults who are still tyrants and spoiled brats. Women with the “cool parents” who never disciplined them are a nightmare when you don’t give them their way.
Just like a toddler, spoiled women kick, scream, and throw tantrums when they’re told “no” or they don’t get what they want.
Don’t date anyone who behaves like a child. When she’s behaving like a spoiled brat, you can be the parent she never had and correct her or you can simply say, “Life is way too short to put up with this” and move on and avoid her.
18. Drug Addict and Alcoholic
Everyone has their problems so there’s no need to be judgmental and mean.
Don’t try being her hero and saving her. If she’s on drugs or an alcoholic, she needs more than a boyfriend – needs counseling and therapy. She’s at a point in her life where she needs to focus on herself, her problems, and her health. She’s not capable of responsibly handling a man in her life.
She won’t change for anyone but herself and if she’s not ready to change, you will be miserable and unfulfilled in the relationship.
19. The Man User
Men who want to be “helpful” are too blinded by women’s attention and approval to realize they’re being used. They buy drinks at the bar, give women rides, pay their bills, give them money, watch their kids, fix their car, and, even, give them a place to live.
Women who use men are not in distress. They’re using men to fix the problems they created. Man users deliberately don’t take money to bars and restaurants because they know men will buy them drinks all night long. Their bills get out of control because they know men will pay them. They don’t manage their spending because they know men will give them money.
If you suspect she’s using you, stop helping her. When stays, she probably wasn’t using you. When she leaves, it means she was.
Conclusion – Your Happiness Depends on the Types of Women You Choose to Have in Your Life
From time to time, will run into a few of these types of women and it’s best to be prepared and know what you’re getting into.
I’m not judging these women or saying they’re bad people – they’re just not going to make you very happy.
Place your happiness and peace of mind above all else and stay focused on your path and goals.
If a woman is taking away from your happiness and becoming a major distraction, move on and avoid her.
If she comes into your life, makes you happier, gives you more peace of mind, and makes you a better person, she’s a keeper.
That’s the high-quality woman you’ve been looking for.
Never settle for less than what you want or because she’s “hot” and fun to party with.
Always look at the bigger picture and what’s best for you and your life.
Keep the woman who makes you a better man – not the one who tears you down, messes up your life, and keeps you from getting to where you’re going.
Thanks for reading,
– Marc Summers